Answer
The friend is not correct, the right hand side is positive.
Work Step by Step
The given equation is
$\Rightarrow |3x+8|-9=-5$
Add $9$ to each side.
$\Rightarrow |3x+8|-9+9=-5+9$
Simplify.
$\Rightarrow |3x+8|=4$
Hence, the friend is not correct, the right hand side is positive.