Answer
$$ e_w
=\left\langle\frac{4}{\sqrt{21}},-\frac{2}{\sqrt{21}},-\frac{1}{\sqrt{21}} \right\rangle.$$
Work Step by Step
$$ e_w=\frac{w}{\|w\|}=\frac{\langle 4,-2,-1 \rangle }{\sqrt{16+4+1}}\\
=\left\langle\frac{4}{\sqrt{21}},-\frac{2}{\sqrt{21}},-\frac{1}{\sqrt{21}} \right\rangle.$$