Answer
$$m=\frac{13}{9}\quad \mathrm{or}\quad \:m=3$$
Work Step by Step
Since the value inside the absolute value can be positive or negative and get the same number, we must consider both options. Doing this, we find:
$$20-9m=-7\quad \mathrm{or}\quad \:20-9m=7 \\ m=\frac{13}{9}\quad \mathrm{or}\quad \:m=3$$