Answer
$$j=-7\quad \mathrm{or}\quad \:j=2$$
Work Step by Step
Since the value inside the absolute value can be positive or negative and get the same number, we must consider both options. Doing this, we find:
$$5+2j=-9\quad \mathrm{or}\quad \:5+2j=9 \\ j=-7\quad \mathrm{or}\quad \:j=2$$