Identity and Insecurity
The collection of essays in Me Talk Pretty covers a wide range of topics but most notable is Sedaris sense of identity and Insecurity. As an American living in Paris, who can barely speak French, Sedaris is forced to cultivate a creative personality to blend into life in Paris. The author also has trouble with his sexuality, but what is most notable about his dilemma with his own identity is his obsession with how he perceives himself.
Additionally, Sedaris expresses his sense of insecurity which is fueled by the need to embody a particular identity which he perceives to be more appealing to his environs. Unapologetic in his rendering, the author expresses his sense of insecurity with his personality. According to the author, displaying his self-consciousness merely displays what it entails to be human.
Class and Belonging
In the collection of essays, Sedaris describes his struggle with class and status since he was a child. His parents were very class-conscious. When the family moved from New York to North Carolina, his parents insisted that Sedaris and his siblings avoid adapting what they referred to as the North Carolina “backward way of life.” Later in his young adult life, Sedaris recognizes the big gap between him and the exuberantly rich individuals. During his stay in New York, the author sees himself a failure after he encounters wealthy entrepreneurs in the city. As the years go by, Sedaris comes to terms with his status quo; he decides to build a life centered on happiness and ultimate fulfillment rather than a wealthy lifestyle.
Family, Support, and Love
In his essays, Sedaris dives deep into the complex relationship between family members and the lasting influence it has in one’s entire life. He describes family relationships as exhausting and emotionally draining. Loving someone unconditionally without expecting anything in return can be tiresome. In conclusion, the author describes loving and supporting another human being regardless of any blood ties as knowing how to put up with them.
