What makes Hari feel independent on 133? What is the coconut seller’s advice to Hari?

I'm not sure if our page numbers match. The coconut seller advises Hari to catch his ferry home, after coconut day, but admonishes Hari that he should never have left; his mother and sisters. However, Hari defends himself by saying that he had to come to Bombay because of his father who sold out their fishing boat and cow too.