Is grandma treatment of her in death similar to or different from their treatment of her in life?

Grandmother dies without respect and her childlike actions are brushed aside by her daughter and son-in-law. She was a pillar of strength and love as a mother, she was hardworking both as a wife and mother. It seems her compassion and motherly love haven't rubbed off on her daughter, as she is afforded none in return at the end of her life.