What are reefs 4life lessons he learned himself

Judgment is one of those words that sounds scary, and it is scary, but it's not necessarily a bad thing. Judgment is merely criticism; it is the human ability to try and find justice. Judgment is about making things better, by systematically fixing problems, but that's not the only part of judgment. What happens when instead of fighting for truth and order, a person uses their judgmental attitudes to become angry that they aren't getting what they want? Reef shows us plain and clear. By literally "Throwing the first stone" as the title suggests, we see that Reef's character flaw is that he allows his emotions to make him violent. Why? Because he is angry that he isn't getting what he wants, and he wants to judge whoever is responsible for that. If no one in particular is responsible for it, he'll be violent against anyone, even Leeza Hemming, it seems.