What does Roza notice about Sean and Finn that is different from the other men she’s encountered?

Roza notes that both Sean and Finn are not merely interested in her looks. THey actually respect her and are nice guys. Finn is a very sensitive teenager, who loves his brother, his cat and Petey, who is a girl of his dreams. Roza’s kidnapping makes him feel guilty, for he blames himself for not helping her, for believing that she wanted to leave. When Sean finds out that Roza has left them, he continues to live just like he did before her. Of course, his life without Roza is emptier, but if she is happier without him, Sean can manage. This is love as it is.